Thursday, May 29, 2008

I'm famous ya'll

Okay not really but you all know that I love U People and everything they do and faithfully watch their vlog. Well today's new vlog featured the amazing Zanele Muholi. I've posted about her before and she's just amazing. Anyways while I'm enjoying the wonderfulness that is Olive and Hanifah and Olive gives me a shout out! She mentioned me and I actually screamed in my apartment, it actually went more like OH MY GOD! OH MY GOD! Lol So if you haven't already experienced the wonderfulness that is the U People click play below.

Also if you're in the NYC area you have to go to their Brooklyn Pride performance on June 12th. The other love of my life Staceyann Chin will be performing along with Hanifah and Shelley Nicole's Blakbushe. I've seen them both perform and you're in for an amazing performance go and watch me be incredible jealous. Click the pic for more info

Friday, May 23, 2008


Okay I don't know if you can tell but Grey's Anatomy last night blew my mind!! Here's a wonderful fanvid put together. Yay Callica!!!


I was actually writing up a post about one of my other wives Mia Michaels, but I had to stop because OH SHIT!! Grey's Fucking Anatomy!!!

If you haven't seen the season finale yet you are missing out, it was amazing!! Spoilers ahead for those who don't want to know.

but Callie and Hahn!!!!!!!!! OH MY GOD!!! AMAZING!!! I really hope they keep this relationship up!!

Did you guys watch? What did you think? I loved every minute of the episode.

Sara Ramirez kissing another woman!!! Its too much for my heart to handle. Laura how are you doing?

I've added some pictures I've gotten from AfterEllen you should also go over their and read their more coherent recap.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

10 million animals

In an attempt to not blog about my recent bout of depression, I'm going to poll all my Queer female readers. What is it with same sex couples and pets? Now I am not a pet person, I'm more a plant person I have 6 plants and they all have names, Audre, Assata 2.0, Angela, Betty, Coretta and Frida. I'm pretty sure you can figure out where the names came from, but I pretty much watch anything with lesbians in it, because that's how I've found community, but all the reality shows where there's a lesbian coouple they always have like 10 million pets.. ok I'm exaggerating but you get the point. So here's my question, do you have pets? If so how many? And why all the damn animals?

Now don't get me wrong I like animals.... just not near me. For real though let me know.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Did you hear?!

Did you hear? Did you hear?!
California Supreme Court overturns ban on Gay marriage!!!
I don't know if you know this, but my wife lives in California and its a big deal for us. So we may be able to get married in her state.

So while that's great, she's also nominated for a New Now Next Award... So it would really help the relationship if she won, you know she's happy, I'm happy , wedding goes smoothly so go here and vote for her multiple times. If she isn't motivation enough

Do it for our daughter yet to be born Audre... Isn't she beautiful?

Monday, May 12, 2008

Crush is BACK!!!

I don't know if I've mentioned this before but I absolutely LOVE American Gladiators!!

I'm watching the season 2 premiere now and I'm so excited here are some notables!

joining the gladiators we have last season's winner Jet

We have the lovely Siren

and of course my all time favorite Crush

But, I'm not anti male, outside of Crush my favorites are Toa and Wolf. They really get into it, and Wolf really embodies his character. They're tough, but the women are a lot rougher.


and I absolutely LOVE Wolf!

I hope you're watching because everyone loves a little aggression!!

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Allergies...shoot me!

Allergies are currently kicking my ass!!! Shoot me

Saturday, May 03, 2008

Help a Sista out!

Okay its community building time!
All of us Queer folks know how difficult coming out is, whether you've done it or are dreading it. So I just read over at Jasmyne Cannick's site about a Black Lesbian sister who just came out and it didn't go so well. She's been cut off financially and has graduation coming up with no way to pay. So if you guys can spare a few dollars, it'd really help. Follow this link to the original post to learn more about her story and how to help.

Friday, May 02, 2008

Vote for my wife!!

Vote For My Wife!!

In After Ellen's hot 100

They're trying to find out who Lesbian and bi ladies think is hot, let them know ROSE!!!

“I remember how being young and black and gay and lonely felt. A lot of it was fine, feeling I had the truth and the light and the key, but a lot of it was purely hell.” ~Audre Lorde