Sunday, February 10, 2008

Advice needed

Help I need advice!!
So here's the deal I like a girl and she likes me, normally it'd all be good but she's married ... to a man. She's bi and I have no issues with that, but her being married worries me. I'm currently not interested in being in a serious long term relationship, especially since I'm moving in some months. So in my head this sounds like a good arrangement, the relationship could only get so serious because she's married and when I commit to someone I want it to be just us two. But I'm afraid that this could all blow up in my face especially since this would be my first relationship with a woman. I just set up a date for the end of this week, am I crazy? Should I walk away? I don't know what to do!! Help

4 comments:

Jason Hughes said...

I say walk away... Don't get involved... Issues of jealousy, time spent with whom... This could get really ugly...

I know a desire for a wonderful long-term (hell, even a short-term) GOOD relationship is good for the self and a much desired state of being... But this has the potential for WAY too many problems, least of which is her being bi and you wanting a relationship...

Of course, it is up to you, and I suppose these things sometimes do work out on their own, but...

That's just my two cents...

Good luck!

Journey_Wmn said...

Thanks Jason, you're right this is too sticky of a situation to get involved in. So I think I'm going to pass. Now I gotta figure out how to tell her, I'm not so good with telling people no. I don't care about her being bi its just the whole married thing. Anyways thanks a lot

Greyday said...

Don't walk away...run away. There are too many beautiful single women out there.
Don't sell yourself short.

GreyDay

Coolfyah said...

Just chiming in to say you've made the right decision to run away.

“I remember how being young and black and gay and lonely felt. A lot of it was fine, feeling I had the truth and the light and the key, but a lot of it was purely hell.” ~Audre Lorde